Give Your Posterity A Letter To Come Back To See U

I saw a question on “zhihu”, someone ask a question about time machine, why there’s no one come back from the future, but always people in the contemporary fly to the future world. So interesting a question, kinds of answer give me a good lesson, and i first know a theory named grandfather paradox.

Grandfather paradox

is meant the time traveller went back to the time when his grandfather  had not married yet. The time traverller kills his grandfather at that time, and therefore, the time traveller is never born when he was meant to be. If he is never born, then he is unable to travel through time and kill his grandfather, which means he would be born, and so on.

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Draw A Draft In My Mind

I have worked for one year more, English is an essential language requirements to my work, I should have the ability to speak fluently English at anytime in any occasion. But, only I know myself, i know i don’t have that brave to speak English words in my mouth, I fear my action like a fool. It makes me complicated to move the first feet.

Don’t shy, start to speak it out!!

I tell myself thousand times to speak it out, and now, I have study darw a draft in my mind when i trying to say the english word out. Listen english video on the way to company, scan News on foreign website.

Tommorow our work team will have a Team Buiding Party, and I start draw a draf in my mind, I am going to talking with my foreign colleagues.

Your Timeline Will Rolling Out Video Ads

Facebook is so popular a social media all over the world, users can connect families, classmates, colleagues through open an web-browser and typing in http://www.facebook.com. Great searching function and inner relationship connection  made it so easy to find an old friend, we can share status instantly, find good memories, upload images or videos and even talk with our friends. All these services seemed free, but it’s not actually. Ads are anywhere in your webpage, and we can’t remove it. But  I always thankful that all these ads are  not in my timeline.

Facebook fans mention it, Facebook will rolling ads in user’s feeds on the web and mobile devices later this week.

Why is Facebook tossing one more things for you to quickly scroll past? Because it can charge advertisers much more for video ads, which will play weather or not users click on them, letting it grab some of the money usually marked for TV campaigns.

Please Open The Door

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My roommate buy a little cat from the internet, I am not an annimal lover, I dare any animal in this world, for i was scared by a horrible dog when I was a little girl, I thought it‘s an intimation that a dog is hungry when the dog stick  its tongue  out of its mouth,  and he was telling me he want to eat me when he staring at my eyes.

This little cat come into our life suddenly. In the first night she came, we discuss for hours to gave her a name, she is so small and so cute baby cat. Even thought, I can’t persuade myself to love her, I’m afraid of the cat scratching me or biting me.

When I was in the living room,I lock her out of my room in the dinnering room, she is so naughty to knock my door outside, and at this moment i saw how cute this little soft cat, why I don’t chose to love her.

Without an true experience to view the tiny world by your eyes will never have an opportunity to  find how wonderful the world is!

A Good Song I Heard

About 4 years ago, I watch a TV series which named “The Story Of Time” directed by Wang weizhong, four years has passed by, the love to this series never disappear in my mind, all the actors and all the songs in that series are my love, here’s one slow song I like most.

浮生千里路
            —潘越云

小溪春深处
万千碧柳荫
不记来时路
心托明月
谁家今夜扁舟子

长沟流月去
烟树满晴川
独立人无语
蓦然回首
红尘犹有未归人

春迟迟燕子天涯
草萋萋少年人老
水悠悠繁华已过了
人间咫尺千山路

小溪春深处
万千碧柳荫
不记来时路
心托明月
谁家今夜扁舟子

行到水穷处
坐看云起时
凉净风恬
人间依旧
细数浮生千万绪

春迟迟燕子天涯
草萋萋少年人老
水悠悠繁华已过了
人间咫尺千山路
春迟迟燕子天涯
草萋萋少年人老
水悠悠繁华已过了
人间咫尺千山路

30 Is Not The New 20

Recently, I watch a TED video on the internet, the speaker is a  psychologists Meg Jay.

She said a story about one of her client Alex , Alex was dating with a ass bad man at that time, Alex talked about guys with Meg Jay, she didn’t speak any special words to Alex, just give some basic comfortable words to Alex. But before long, Meg’s supervisor advise her  push Alex about the love life, but Meg pushed back. Meg thought maybe Alex was dating with someone not very good, but it’s not like Alex was going to marry the guy. While Meg’s supervisor said Alex may not be marry with this guy, but might marry with the next one. Besides, the best time to work on Alex’s marriage is before she has one. Then call this as the “a ha ” moment. And that was the moment Meg realized 30 is not the new 20.

The 20s deserved to know what psychologists, sociologists, neurologists and fertility specialists. Already know: that claiming your 20s is one of the simplest, yet most transformative, things you can do for work , for love, for your happiness, maybe even for the world. And this is not Meg’s opinion. These are the facts.

80% of the life’s most defining moments take place by age 35. It means 8 out of 10 people decisions and experienced and  “aha” moments that make your life what it is  will  happened by your mid-30s. The first ten years of a career had an exponential impact on how much you are going to earn.

You can’t change pick your family, but you can pick your friends.Forget about having an identity crisis and get some identity capital.By getting some identity capital mean do something that adds value to who you are. Identity capital begets identity capital. Meg said “I am not discounting twentysomething exploration at here, but I am discounting exploration that’s not supposed to count”, I like this phrase she said. Explore work and make it count. Urban tribe is overrated, best friends are great for giving rides to the airport, but twentysomethings who huddle together with like-minded peers limit who the know, what they know, how they know,how the think, how they speak, and where they work.

Half of new jobs are never posted, so reaching out your neighbor’s boss is how you get that un-posted job.  It’s not cheating. It’s the science of how information spreads.

30 is not the new 20, so claim your adulthood, get some indentity capital, use your weak ties, pick your family. Don’t be defined by what you didn’t know or didn’t do. You’re deciding your life right now.

Human Life

Human Life

By Lin huiyin

You are a melody,

I am a singer.

You are a river,

I am a boat, a white sail.

As I am a traveler,

You are the field, forest and mountain.

In the way,

Closely interconnected are.

You and me,

I always pass through you.

I survive,

You are the stream channel of my existence,

And the reason and power of my existence.

Your existence

Is my multicolored

Heartbeat.

We are interlaced, but make

No difficulty for each other.

Now i am dead,

You,-

I will unload you onto others!